Taya Kyle, the widow of Navy veteran Chris Kyle, also known as the American Sniper, says NFL players who kneel during the national anthem should get off their knees and “work on building bridges.”
In an open letter posted Tuesday on Facebook, Kyle wrote that players kneeling is a divisive and angry move that "has shattered what many people loved most about the sport."
She said professional football united people, but now players’ actions are breaking that unity.
“You were doing your part to bring people together and heal the world,” she wrote. “You were doing your part celebrating each other based on skills, talent and a joint vision without regard to color and religion ... Did it ever occur to you that you and we (fans) were already a mix of backgrounds, races and religions? We were already living the dream you want, right in front of you.”
Kyle suggested that support for players kneeling may be seen as unpatriotic.
“You have lost me,” Kyle wrote.
Dozens of NFL players, coaches and owners kneeled during Sunday games in the wake of comments from President Donald Trump in which he said that NFL owners should fire players who “disrespect the flag.” The comments were geared toward players, who Trump called “sons of (expletive),” who kneel during the singing or playing of the anthem.
Kyle encouraged NFL players to use their voices and be impactful in other ways, like “building bridges” in their communities.
“You have a lot of strong guys, I am sure in the off season a lot of them could build some pretty big bridges if they care enough to do the hard work,” she wrote. “That would involve getting off their knees and getting to work though. I can do it while I raise two kids as their only parent and work through the greatest pain of my life. Let’s see if they can do it for the issues they say they care so much about.”
Kyle’s letter reads, in full, as follows:
“Dear NFL,
“You were doing your part to bring people together and heal the world. That’s really how healing works. We heal by loving each other and leading by example; showing people what is possible when we love each other just as we are and not only recognize our differences but celebrate them and look at how we can use them together to make us jointly better than our separate parts. You were doing your part celebrating each other based on skills, talent and a joint vision without regard to color and religion.
“You were doing your part and we were doing ours. We showed up cheering and groaning together to as one. We talked in the concession lines and commiserated and celebrated our team together. Did it ever occur to you that you and we were already a mix of backgrounds, races and religions? We were already living the dream you want, right in front of you.
“Your desire to focus on division and anger has shattered what many people loved most about the sport. Football was really a metaphor for our ideal world – different backgrounds, talents, political beliefs and histories as one big team with one big goal - to do well, to win, TOGETHER.
“You are asking us to abandon what we loved about togetherness and make choices of division. Will we stand with you? Will we stand with our flag? What does it mean? What does it mean if we buy a ticket or NFL gear? What does it mean if we don’t? It is the polar opposite of the easy togetherness we once loved in football.
“It was simple – we loved you and you loved us – with all of our races, religions, different backgrounds and politics. Simplicity in a crazy world was pretty awesome.
“You, dear NFL, have taken that. You have lost me here.
“If you ever want to get off your knees and get to work on building bridges, let me know. I have found screaming about the problems in service marriages or even standing in silence in front of them, hasn’t healed even one of them. On the other hand, funding the Chris Kyle Frog Foundation, building a team and rolling up my sleeves to get in the trenches during my “off time” - volunteering there outside of my paying jobs - has proven to make real change.
“You have a lot of strong guys, I am sure in the off season a lot of them could build some pretty big bridges if they care enough to do the hard work. That would involve getting off their knees and getting to work though. I can do it while I raise two kids as their only parent and work through the greatest pain of my life, let’s see if they can do it for the issues they say they care so much about.
“Go Longhorns and Sic ‘Em.
“Sincerely, Taya”
Credit: Jacob Ford
Credit: Jacob Ford
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